I don't think you know this

but when I get you a cold drink I sometimes drop my penis in it.

Why do i do this, just so i can smile to myself, sad i know.

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Just got an email from the owner of www.Fakesend.com that the site is back after some issues have been resolved.
So at least one service for sending your confessions anonymously is back up and running!

John Deau

I don't think

I can do it anymore.

When we moved out of the flat we thought things would get better between us but they haven't. You tell me we are not a couple but yet you will want me to be there to pick you up form work, put the sheets on your bed and massage you etc etc.

What do I get in return, not much, yes I know you look after our son during the week when he is not at pre school but that's all you do, the housework is mainly left to me, weekends I have our son as you work every Sunday and two Saturdays a week. I am going to be changing the weekend habits and instead of me having to clean the house do the washing etc I am going to start taking our son on long day trips, where I don't know yet but that really doesn't matter, I hate having to be your lift or be at home for you/with you. you are the one that tells me we are not together anymore yet I still feel like we are and when I try to kiss you and take it further I get shot down in flames. You said that when you got the new place things would improve, in the house and the bedroom, they haven't, we have had sex once since we have moved in and that was a month ago and before that was another 6 weeks. I need sex and I want it with you but nothing happens.

I have realised that we will not be getting back together but I don't think you have. You need to and fast as I cannot do this any more.

My Confession

I don’t know when it actually started. I started suspecting something about 2 years ago. You warned me about the lack of sex. I can’t remember when you stopped pestering me about it. I realize that is about the time your behavior changed. Perhaps you met him at that time. You changed everything about yourself. You know I actually am attracted to you much more now. You lost weight, changed you hair, bought a new car and added to you wardrobe. You’re actually very pretty, confident and sexy now. But you're out of reach for me. I fantasize a lot about you now, much more than ever before. I didn’t realize what I had.

Because you’re with him I hope he is a better lover than I was. I actually let you have your time with him. The weekend trips with your girlfriends, your business travel; I really know who you’re secretly meeting with. In case you didn’t realize it is getting more frequent, more bold. The kids miss you very much. I miss you too. But you are a much better person to be around. We don’t fight like we used to. I hope you are happy with him. I hope he fulfills your desires and deepest dreams. You know I work my ass off to give this to you. I know that you could never admit to how content you are.

Someday I’ll lose the weight and take care of myself a little more. I hope you could find the love with me again. I hope that you love me now. Not as a lover but as a caretaker to your household. In the mean time I’ll just be content on pleasing myself while you get it like you want.

no updates..

So I guess I'm writing a little update myself, since I'm not exactly flooded with submissions :)
I do realize that men are simply not as likely to write in their problems as women are, but I had hoped for a little bit more response. I do get a decent amount of visitors, but the only way to increase my readership, and therefor your audience, is to have more posts.

So here is one of my own:

We've been doing a small remodeling in our house, and my wife repeatedly looks for confirmation that we work well together. Truth be told, if she was one of my staff, I'd have a hard time keeping her on, since she does not pull her weight, yet has no problems criticizing the work of others (Read: me). I should tell her that, but I feel bad bursting her bubble.

A confession

Dear Wife,

Our divorce hearing was four weeks ago which means we have another four weeks until it becomes final. I do have regrets, of course I do an you've told me you do as well. but I'm really glad we've managed to put the anger aside for the sake of our kids and I will absolutely hold up my end of the bargain with regards to support for them and you as I have been doing for the last three years since we split. I'm glad we're friends, or we seem to be friends, and you accept my help and advice that I offer.

I'm glad I wasn't there for the birth of your new baby girl. The thought of going through as your birth partner made me feel ill to be honest but I'd never have told you and if you'd called I'd have been there. I'm sorry it didn't work out with the baby's father I truly am but my new job will mean you get more support and I'm sure that'll be welcome.

As you know, I've met someone. And she's fantastic. She makes me feel like I've never felt before. Yes, even though we were together for 13 years, it's not the same. We married because we got pregnant, but with this girl, I want to marry her and be hers for the rest of my life. Whe fills me up. She's great with our kids, has no bad habits and adores our daughter, only having sons of her own. She wants me to move in with her and we've talked about marriage already. We wont have any more kids, I don't want to distract from my two with you.

I really want your blessing in this and I know I've talked to you about this girl, I've been a little dishonest about how serious I am. I wish there was a good time to talk about this. I want our kids at the wedding, if it happens, and I'd love for you to be there too. You were always my best friend.

underwear

Sometimes when you are out, I put on your underwear. Mostly the tight fitting ones, but also your thongs. it makes me horny.

I hope you fell better soon

as when your ill everyone knows about it, I know you get frustrated with yourself because you can't do anything but please don't shout and moan at me about it. I will help you as much as I can but I do get tired to.

Love you loads though and can't wait till you are well again

It's over

That's what I want to tell you but I can't.

I still love you but it is so hard for me to live with you.

no title

I really only love one of our kids.

Whilst away

I smoked a few joints and they were great.

It really annoys me that whenever i try to smoke one whenever your around you get on your high horse.

I would never do it in front of our son or be in a state where he would be in harms way.

Grow up

Games

I know you think it's silly and childish of me to still enjoy playing computer games, but why can't you just let it be? It's my outlet, it does not harm anyone, and other than that, I'm not your prototypical basement geek. I don't need to hear you go off every time about how dumb they are. You don't like them, fine, don't play.

cheater

I'm pretty sure my wife has an affair, and that knowledge doesn't even bother me that much. After all, I've been actively looking for someone to cheat on her with, so I can't blame her.

What fucking irks me though is that she has always had that holier than thou attitude, accusing me of cheating on her while I hadn't done a thing (yet), treating me as if I had cheated. The "if you ever cheat on me I'll still stay with you" line, hoping I'd confess to something I hadn't done, and now she is fucking around behind my back.

I really

don't want another child.

Our son is three years old and will be going to school on two years time.

This means you can then go out and get a full time job and I won't have to struggle paying the bills and can enjoy myself and us as a family more.

I know that you have a part time job but that pays for your things and some of our sons

Mistakes

Marrying you was a big mistake, I shouldn't have done it. Like you always used to say, we live like roommates, not husband and wife. We coexist, that's it. It is the typical situation too, decided to get married, got pregnant way too quick, and now I can't even leave you, since I would never see my kids again.

It's not that I don't like you, I or dislike you really. I just have no feelings left for you.

I wish I was strong enough to leave you.